Mother of the Bride: What to Wear to a Beach Wedding

When you’re the mother of the bride or groom, you want to look your best without overshadowing the bride. Beach weddings in Cancun and the Riviera Maya tend to be informal but significant. Here are some tips for dressing appropriately:

1. Do Not Wear Black

Opt for lighter colors and pastels to blend in better with the bright, sandy beach. Black can be hot and stand out too much.

2. Talk to the Bride

Consult with the bride about what she would like you to wear. Your outfit should complement the wedding theme. For example, if the bridesmaids are in pink, avoid wearing pink yourself unless requested. Similarly, if the bridesmaids are in corals and pinks, do not dress in greens as you don’t want to be on the opposite side of the colour wheel.

3. Wear Solid Colors

Solid colors photograph better than patterns. This is why if you look at advertising, nearly all the time, the models will be wearing solid colours. And if you choose a pattern, ensure it’s large and not too busy.

4. Consider a Wardrobe Change

Having two outfits—one for the ceremony and one for the evening reception—can help you stay comfortable and appropriately dressed throughout the day. You can also change from sand-friendly footwear to something more fun for dancing.

5. Think About Your Footwear

Heels are impractical for the beach, so opt for flats or go barefoot. Ensure your dress length accommodates both flats for the beach and heels for later if you plan to switch.

6. It Might Get Chilly in the Evening

Beachfront events can be windy, and cooler in the evening. Consider bringing a wrap, like a cashmere pashmina, to stay warm after sunset. These are elegant enough for formal events and versatile for other uses.

7. Go with the Flow

Maintain clear communication and keep the atmosphere positive. If you feel your outfit might be too attention-grabbing, consider choosing something more subtle. Aim to blend in while still looking your best, ensuring the spotlight stays on the couple.

Conclusion

As the mother of the bride or groom, your role is important, but the spotlight should remain on the couple. Follow these tips to dress appropriately and enjoy the day without drawing too much attention. Above all, have fun, and make sure to smile!

– Dean Sanderson
Cancun Wedding Photographer